Father's Day

Sweets,

I am excited to have the opportunity to honor you publicly!

For those of you who don't know my husband very well, let me summarize. He is a man who loves the Lord and seeks to honor him by serving our family. He leads us very humbly, very well. When he comes home from a long day of work, he eagerly dives in to his role as father. He doesn't not come in and kick back on the couch, tuning everything, and everyone, out. He takes over as leader and makes our evenings joy-filled. His leadership is clearly felt when he is home and dearly missed when he is not. I am a better mom because of his gentle leadership and patient guidance.

Kev, I love you. I love you more today than I did almost 6 years ago on our wedding day. Parenting with you has deepened my love and respect for you and has revealed more of your character. You are patient, gentle, kind, slow to speak and abounding with love. You represent our Savior very well to our children - and to me. I have seen you grow over the last 3 years as a daddy. I love to watch you read the Bible to Chloe. You are seizing moments that could be spent on something easier to train our daughter to love God and his Word. It is working! Even this morning, she carried her huge Bible across the house so you could read it to her. She is eager for those times with you and she is memorizing the stories. When you left today, I read "Life outside the Garden" from her Big Picture Storybook Bible. I paused often and each time she filled in the words verbatim! That is your investment into her growth. She is learning about God's character and you read and explain. Thank you.

Thank you for humbly pursuing help from others. I have seen you grow in godliness as you have humbled yourself. God's promise is true; he does give grace to the humble. Thank you for leading me to grow as a mom and for pointing to Jesus when I am discouraged. Thank you for recognizing and encouraging me that what I'm doing day by day is important and worthwhile. Without your leadership, help, sacrifice, encouragement, etc. I would not be able to be home everyday with our children. You make it possible. Thank you for sacrificing cars and houses and toys and extra money for the sake of our family. Thank you for loving us and for giving us your self: your time, your effort, your prayers, your care, your leadership, your all. We benefit everyday from being in your family. Lord, all glory be to you for giving us Kevin to lead us!! I will never be able to praise and thank you enough!

Well, I could go on all day, but Chloe has somethings she wants to say:

And then I asked her if she wanted to sing Daddy a song:

We love you, sweetheart! I can't wait to enjoy this day with you!

Father's Day (for Papa Tom)

Dad,

Today the kids made a video for you. We were talking about Father's Day and what we could do to bless the dads in our lives and Chloe wanted to say this to you:

Then, she wanted to sing this song:

I would like to say how much I love you. You are and have been a wonderful dad whose example of faith has be an encouragement to me. You are anchored to the Rock and the steadfastness of the Lord shines in you. You are steadfast. You are a rock in our family. You are a faithful man who trusts God in everything. You entrusted us, your children, to the Lord when we were small and you've continued to entrust everything to the Lord. Thank you for your example. Your faith encourages mine. I love you!

Happy Father's Day!

Reflecting.

We are pregnant and so grateful to be carrying yet another little one. This is my fifth pregnancy. Hard to believe. Tonight, I looked back on the journal pages capturing the days prior to and following the miscarriage. I still miss that baby even though we are pregnant again. I am still aware that the due date is approaching. When I see a very pregnant woman I still think about how big I would be and wonder how close to July 16th they are due. I still cry sometimes - like tonight. A new baby does not replace the lost one. 

I find myself saying, "we are pregnant", rather than "we're going to have a baby". Not because I am afraid, but because we don't know if we will have a baby. All we know is that, for right now, we are pregnant. There is a tiny life growing inside of me - today. Praise God! I will rejoice for today! I will grieve tomorrow if necessary, but today I rejoice. 

The Lord has blessed me this go round with little sickness. I have felt mildly nauseous only 3 or 4 times. It is really strange. I felt incredibly sick, all day long, everyday with the last one and was very nauseous with Chloe and Jake. I don't understand why I feel this way, but I am grateful.

Lord, thank you for the time we have with this baby. Thank you for blessing me with the gift of children and for the hope we feel as we anticipate meeting this one. We trust in your plan even if it hurts. If you have called us to more suffering, then we will trust you to walk us through it one small step at a time. Our hearts' desire to have a healthy baby this winter. Please, give us this baby and allow us to raise him or her for your glory! Allow us to lay down our lives for this one. However, no matter what the next few weeks and months hold, we will still strive to say - The Lord gives and the Lord takes away. Blessed be the name of the Lord!

Thunder

Two or three days ago we were playing outside in the swelteringly hot summer weather. Chloe, Jake, and all four Dabbondanza children were playing in the kid pool and running through the sprinkler. Jenn and I were watching them and chatting on the porch swing when suddenly, the temperature dropped. A few minutes later we noticed amazing and ominous clouds rolling in! The shift in weather was dramatic and swift. We began rounding the kids up and running for the door. Within minutes the storm us upon us and we were watching from our windows. Chloe heard the thunder and began asking questions. She wanted to know where the thunder was, so I told her it was in the clouds. I answered her questions and explained that she need not fear because God controls the weather. He speaks and the wind and the rain stop. 

The next morning, Chloe was still thinking about the thunder. She asked me, "How does the thunder get down?" I don't remember how I answered her, but it didn't matter. She waited patiently for me to finish speaking and then said, "I know how it can get down. We can put a ladder in the grass. A reeeeally tall ladder." I smiled and tried to burn the conversation into my memory. Unfortunately, I cannot remember what else she had to say, but I remember loving the insight into the way her mind works! 

Prayerfully...

we are expecting our third on January 4th! We had our first appointment on Monday and were able to see the baby moving around a lot! It is amazing to see a baby so small moving tiny arms and legs. What a joyful moment for Kevin and me! Sorry for the fuzzy picture - Kev took a picture of the picture with his iPhone.  For those of you unaccustomed to looking at sonograms, the left half of the baby is the head and the right half is the body. The small dots near the top of the body and on either side are hands and arms (which are much longer than they appear) and the dots at the bottom are legs and feet.

We are trusting the Lord with the safety of our baby and are aware that we may not ever get to hold this little one. However, we are very excited and enjoying each day that we have to grow and love this baby. Of course, we are praying for a healthy pregnancy and delivery and that we will hold our little one this winter.  

I'm feeling well this pregnancy but I am extremely tired. I thank God for the symptoms I have because it means that I am still pregnant! It is impacting my ability to memorize scripture. I'm finding it much more difficult to focus and remember. Pregnancy brain has seized me early this time! Please pray that I will press in through these first-trimester days. Also, I'm seeing my deadline for completing Romans (August 1st) slip away. Kevin has encouraged me to just make new deadline rather than attempting to memorize even more at a time and beginning to feeling discouraged. I would welcome thoughts as well as prayers regarding this decision.

The other news I've been waiting to post about has to do with my amazing husband. Kevin will be starting the Pastors College this fall! For those of you who don't know what I'm talking about, let me briefly explain. Our church, Covenant Life, is part of a family of churches called Sovereign Grace Ministries. They have created a Pastors College (PC) to train men to serve as pastors in their churches across the country and around the world. It is a one-year, intensive program designed to equip men (and, to a lesser degree, their wives) to effectively serve their local churches. We are thrilled to be going this year! It is a privilege to be Kevin's wife and to be able to serve him and our family as he enters this new season. 

So, there we are. All updated. We have had busy weeks lately so there are some details of lesser importance that I'll post sometime soon. This takes care of the big stuff: new baby, school for Kevin, new season of serving...all at the same time. This will be quite the adventure!